I've done a few "co-coaching" gigs...and they have all worked well. Caesari hit it right.....I only have so much time and I can do gameplanning twice a day...I just don't have the time to check in and do the effort required every three hours for recruiting. This helps me and helps someone else (who likes that part of the game and has the time to do it). Clearly, it only works if the humans involved can get along and don't step on each other's toes. I've done a few seasons with two other guys...one recruited, one was OC, one was DC. Worked great. In another world, I split OC/DC (and the recruiting for each) with one other coach.
So, in this case, with my homelife issues...the choices were to (1) quit, (2) find someone to recruit, or (3) continue with the team and basically ignore it, thus making a huge mess of a decent team and totally shitcan my record/reputation as a coach.
Lastly, I think I have done quite well at doing it all "effectively" in two worlds for a couple of years now. I think my W/L record and GUESS ratings speak for themselves. Others are better, for sure but I think I've done a pretty decent job.