How does "ladies night" bother you when you argue any business should be able to do whatever they want?
First, I didn't argue a business can do "whatever they want". I argued a business should be able to do business with whomever they wish.
Second, I'm arguing ladies night is the same as a "whites only" night or other similar things which aren't tolerated, which means by the same logic "ladies night" shouldn't be tolerated either.
Sure, you can refuse service. You just can't do it on the basis of race or gender. That's illegal and you don't actually have the right to do it, regardless of what you think.
So what you're saying is I can refuse service for whatever reason I want as long as I don't explain the reason, which is what I've been saying all along. Got it.
You can't hang a sign in the window of your restaurant that says, "Whites Only."
As I said, you don't hang that sign. You hang one that says "We reserve the right to refuse service" and then you refer to it for whatever reason you want. Problem solved.
Personally I don't care what your race is and I am not racist. But I think people should be able to do business with whomever they wish.
DC: Why are you not allowing me service?
Biz: A) Cowers, doesn't give answer.
B) Because you're <insert difference>
DC: (either way) You're an ***.
WRONG AGAIN. It would go like this:
DC: Why are you not allowing me service?
Me: Because I reserve the right to refuse service to anyone.
DC: But why?
Me: I already told you why. Please leave or I'll call the police.
I don't give a **** if the person thinks I'm an *** because they're not worth having anyway if they can't understand a simple concept like right to refuse service to anyone.
If you're basing this off someone's gender, age, or race? Yes, you're an ***. You're actually a lot worse, but we'll just go with "***."
You can base the decision on anything you want. For the record I would never actually give a reason as I don't have to give one. It could be you've done something I dislike, it could be you're acting inappropriately, it could be because you're dirty or stink, it could be because I don't like the way you look - whatever.
***The point is it DOESN'T MATTER WHY I refuse service - I still reserve that right, and I don't owe you an explanation regardless.***