LOL. That's the sort of post edso said so many were fond of making on his board.
"I understand if someone can't relate, but as a baseball player, which you are obviously not if you can't relate,
and a fan of professional baseball, which you are obviously not if you can't relate,
seeing the reactions of men who lost a teammate and a friend definitely hits hard."
If one of MY teammates meets an untimely, unexpected end, I might be bawling my eyes out. You know who wasn't my teammate? Fernandez.
I'm older than you so I've been a fan of baseball longer than you. And it's not just professional baseball for me. But I had no in depth conversations with Fernandez about baseball, or anything, so, no matter how big of a baseball fan I am, he's just a guy in a jersey throwing a baseball for my entertainment. There is no personal connection.
Relating to Munson's death as tec mentioned earlier, I was 16. I came home from school and my mother said "Some guy on the Yankees died. Crashed his plane." I'd been a Yankees fan for 10 years. Munson was somewhat of a big deal. But you know what I thought? "Why the **** is he flying a plane during the season? Take some BP." He was just a guy on my team who, quite frankly, would have said "Who? Never heard of him" if informed of my untimely death.