Don't you think posting a pic of that kid, considering the circumstances, makes you a bit of an *******?
FWIW, when I coached 8-9 year olds, half the team played with their own agenda. None were "special needs" but I spent half the game yelling "BILLY!!! THE GAME'S ON THIS FIELD!!" or "JIMMY!!!! PAY ATTENTION TO THE BATTER!!!" I spent the other half of the game telling Billy and Jimmy's parents why Billy and Jimmy weren't playing SS and batting first.