Whoever said I don't have to adjust my coaching decisions to demands of players is wrong.
That was me (among others) and no, you are wrong. You proved it yourself.
What if I inherited a team full of terrible juniors and seniors and recruit freshmen and sophomores who are better? I play the underclassmen and all of my upperclassmen complain and drop WE so they become less productive as backups. Now if I don't want that to happen, I have to cave to their demands.
You don't HAVE to do anything. It is your choice. Each choice you make has a benefit and a consequence. The existence of a consequence you dislike does not mean you are forced to choose the other option. Q E fuckin' D, man.
And seriously! I worry for you. You really seem to be kind of destabilized by the perceived personalities of nonexistent people. This would probably be a lot more enjoyable for you if you could somehow shift your perspective from "cave to their demands" to "click in the drop-down box and make an adjustment and go have a beer".