"Since you have the offer out there, the players' responses will tell you if he is still leaning your way. You can believe what the player says after you send him a scholarship offer."
Gators, you slightly misinterpreted what I meant. When you offer CV's, make phone calls, etc., the messages you get back from the player are total garbage. You can't believe anything the player says from those. But when you send out a scholarship offer to a yellow player, the message you get back from the player whether or not he is leaning your way is the truth AT THAT POINT IN TIME. True, another owner can offer the player more CV's, playing time, etc. and shift him toward the other owner. But as ebel said, you will get a message from the player if/when that happens.