Yes. They're called bisexual. It's a percentage of the population. I'm starting to think that you may be one of them (not that there is anything at all wrong with it) if you think there'e a possibility that you may be attracted to men at some point in your life.
This is the kind of faulty thought process which is perpetuated by the propaganda. It's pure ignorance to assume someone's statues re: "straight", "gay", or "bisexual" is only determined by who they find attractive at the present moment.
Those feelings and attractions can and often do change over time, meaning the label you give to someone isn't necessarily always going to be accurate - and honestly, labeling people based upon their feelings at any given time and expecting that they will never act any differently is the height of ignorance.
Sure, there are people who are "bisexual", but it has nothing to do with attraction to both genders but rather engaging in romantic and/or sexual encounters with both genders within a relatively short period of time.
As for the possibility I may change my mind, that possibility exists in everyone - people do change their minds about a great many things, including those of a sexual nature. Tastes change, preferences change, and decisions change. To act as though someone must be "bisexual" to ever change their mind about their preference is also pure ignorance.
As I've said many times, the action is all that matters - how you "feel" about it is irrelevant. Anyone who says otherwise is either deliberately perpetuating propaganda to justify something that doesn't even need justified or they are someone who has unfortunately bought into what that propaganda is trying to sell.
The things you find absurd are entertaining to me.
The things you ask me to do, such as "take a guess" about a hypothetical random person, are quite entertaining to me.
I call it as it is - when you ask something that's completely absurd, I'm going to tell you about it. That's what I do: I tell it like it is. Too few people do that anymore because everyone's worried about being PC and what others will think of them.
I think you struck gold. The only way someone would think sexuality is a choice is if they are actually bisexual.
Again, this is the height of ignorance.
People change their minds all the time. Tastes change. Preferences change. The things people like and do not like to do in life change.
If you're stuck in the mindset that people are always the same, you are an ignorant fool, plain and simple.
Bis, I don't have a problem with you for being bisexual, but you should understand that most people don't have the same sexual fluidity.
I'm not bisexual, and I am offended that you would attempt to label me as such simply because I tried to explain to you the relatively simple concept that people can and do change their minds.
Your absolute ignorance of that concept gives you no right to label me as something I'm not. Grow up and try to learn something rather than always trying to hurl insults.
It is wanting them. Being atttracted to them. Wanting to be with them.
This makes ZERO logical sense.
You can want to commit a crime in your mind, even visualize doing it, but unless you actually do it there is no chance you're going to be charged with that crime and face a possible penalty for it.
In the same way, you can want to be with someone as much as you want, even visualize it, but unless you actually do get with them romantically and/or sexually, there is no way to determine your choices since you haven't done anything.
They choose to have sex with them, but that doesnt make them gay.
If they're of the same gender, yes it does, until they make a choice that changes that status.
You are who you are, that doesnt mean you may not act like someone else on occasion.
The way you act and what you do DETERMINES who you are. Unless you're in a play or a movie or something of that sort, you can't say that your actions don't count because you were "acting like someone else". That's a cop out and it doesn't work in the real world - unless that murderer on death row can go free by saying he was "acting like someone else" and is therefore not responsible. In fact, that would be the defense for every criminal with half a brain if it actually worked that way.