That's retarded. Doing for yourself(and your family) should be applauded not despised. And, yes, I'm telling you how you should feel. Because, otherwise, you're retarded.
You've just hit the ultimate package of foolish arguments by combining childish insults with attempts to tell others how they should feel. Congratulations on being the among the most foolish people who ever tried to argue anything.
The point is, it's great to applaud people for doing well for themselves if they do it with no collateral damage. You can't just say "well, I'm doing something good for myself, that's a good thing!" as you rob your neighbors at gunpoint.
I agree 100 percent again. The selfish motivations need to stop at some point - I'm merely advocating that point should be far sooner than usually happens.