Well, ****, I thought that was funny.
Seriously, I don't look at every woman and decide "Yes/No". I used to and I believe that led to a ton of failed relationships because, if they were attainable and a "yes", I'd do just enough to let them know I was interested. Sort of a back-up plan if/when my current relationship failed. So, from that, I think I control my "sexual attraction" to an extent. As for men, and I might be stepping over "the other team" line, it's a feature thing. Men tend to not have the features I find attractive. I imagine I could be fooled by an attractive tranny until their bulbous crotch rubbed up against me. If it happened to Bonaduce, it could happen to anyone.