A couple things, here. Jeter's played 18 seasons. 1995 and 2013 don't count. So now it's 18 seasons for Jeter to 13 for DiMaggio. So basically we're asking the extra 5 years of Jeter makes up for Joe DiMaggio. I'd argue no.
Put this in a different way - in what was easily Jeter's best year, he went .349/.438/.552, 24 homers, 37 doubles. Monster year. I'd argue he should have finished 2nd that year to Manny in MVP voting (somehow he finished 6th, and Pudge got 1st). That was good for a 153 OPS+...less than DiMaggio's average season. DiMaggio had a better season than Jeter's best (and it was easily his best) 7 different times.