Posted by milwood on 8/25/2015 8:26:00 PM (view original):
terms such as always, never, every, none, 100%, etc. should be avoided when debating a topic because using such terms brings doubt into the topic. If you had said using company time for gaming should be avoided and I almost never even have the time for it at work anyway......your point may have been well received. Instead you stated your case in absolute terms and stated it in such a manner that it did come across as yo were better than other people on the board. I never have time.....I'm always busy at work.....MY background is to be productive at work.....
Like it or not the way YOU wrote YOUR responses YOU came across as pompous. You had the opportunity early on in this thread to apologize for the way you came off. You could have said something like: whoa guys, I'm sorry I came off the way I did. This is not what I meant at all. I was simply stating my workplace. That's great that some of you guys have some flex time at your jobs, which is completely normal in the real work environment (okay I threw that part in for me).
instead you continues to drive home your own personal work ethic of 100% (which is really just an impossibility which is why you lost every one in this thread)
Hey, just avoid those absolute terms and maybe come down here with the majority of the users. It's really not that bad a place to be.
By the way, I had to postpone my family vacation a little bit today because work got in the way. Unfortunately I don't get to tell my job that outages that happen on my personal time will just have to wait. But honestly, I didn't complain about having to work because I have perks like being able to check WIS at work for a reasonable amount of time (5 minutes is usually enough). My family understood too.
Sorry, I know that was too long a rant and was not well organized
Your first paragraph's point seems to be that some people are incredibly sensitive and expect others to make sure to phrase things in a specific manner or they become offended. To that I say this: stop adding in meaning that isn't there. I never said I was better than other people, so stop pretending I did.
I informed those who said what you are saying that it was incorrect and not intended that way. That should have sufficed.
I will not compromise my beliefs because some people can't take what someone says for what it is or accept that not everyone will agree with them.
Your statement about 100 percent work ethic has already been proven wrong.
Perhaps a few people should learn to ask questions about another position before responding to it based on their own (often incorrect) assumptions. It's really not that difficult of a thing to do.