Okay, I think that...
1) coach reasonably thought his place was solid and his selection had already effectively been registered.
2) The league took so long to fill that coley reasonably felt he needed confirmation from everyone, and since sitemails had evidently gone unopened he didn't want to risk the draft being held up indefinitely after such a long wait.
I propose that coach be reinserted in his original draft spot now, which is easy to do since the player he wants is still on the board. I can withdraw from the league to open up a spot, and everyone from sappy on down to my pick just slides down one without really giving anything up. I'll jump back into this league eventually, no doubt, but have been trying to give my spot away for this season anyway.
Does that solution work?