""Bottom line: It's a game, I pay to play it, and it's annoying to have to put up with my decisions being affected by simulated players instead of me being able to make my own.""
bis, i think what's geting most people to so vehemently disagree with you is this sentiment. you keep insinuating that you are somehow forced to change your coaching style or change decisions because someone is losing work ethic due to no playing time. this is simply false, no matter how many times or ways you say it. you don't have to change anything. if they complaing, due what we all do, NOTHING. let em complain. they aren't playing anyway, so if they improve less, it's completely irrelevant, they don't affect team morale cause that doesn't exist. it has NO IMPACT on anything.
""There is no need for several features of this game to exist, including grades (as someone pointed out, they exist to play basketball, not get a degree). Among those features is this demand for minutes""
also, i hope you realize how silly this statement is. they exist only to play basketball, yet shouldn't expect to play??
""I don't feel I should have to deal with demands from players if I'm in charge""
umm, that's a coaches job, to deal with players.