okay, one last thing, and i know this is beating a dead horse, but i have actually changed my opinion a bit on one thing.
i had not looked at the sitemails since i first read them until just now. after re-reading the first sitemail.... and lets put the issue of whether it was breaking the rules aside for now... but, john, is there any way that you could think that email does not **** off the recipient? maybe its just me, maybe im over-sensitive. But if i had gottten an email like that, i think i would be MORE inclined to battle you for the player.
Its one of those things where the words you are saying are all nice and stuff... but wow, the way it comes across. maybe its just me. but, like i say, if it is legal, it may still not be a good tactic unless one can figure out a way to say it without ******* off the other coach.
I'll be interested to hear the Seble's response.