Well, yeah, if you willingly refuse to accept facts.
Seriously, we're not going to agree. I see little difference in unexpectedly, as in a big school showing up on the next to last cycle of a player you've been wooing the entire session, losing a recruit and a top school unexpectedly, although I'm still having trouble believing a user good enough to sign top recruits can be "surprised", losing a player at the beginning of the 2nd session.
IMO, it's far worse to be stuck with a walk-on than to be forced to sign a mid-level D1 player.