Oddly enough, the worst things that have been said about me have probably been on this board. I've only got one ex that would speak ill of me. To my face, she only called me an *******. But most of my GFs called me that at one time or another. Most thought of me as cocky when I was playing competitive softball. So "arrogant bastard/*******" was mentioned a few times. I think, if one were to poll everyone who's ever known me, the most negative thing would be arrogant or cocky. I prefer "confident" but whatever.