kbc, thank you for the kind words. For starters, if you are looking for communication and a sense of community then my guess is you won't find anything better than DIII Rupp. Since joining the Rupp world, I've really fallen for it. They're all so nice, I highly recommend giving it a shot. If you're looking for some busy conferences, then: University, N. Coast, Great NE, USA South and Ohio are the fuller conferences.
My vision for =SE in its most stripped form is to try to make the game even more fun for others. In its infancy, I wanted to provide a platform to show off other coachs' accomplishments (that gave me the idea for the Starr Scores). When a person has done something they're proud of- even if on a game- it's natural they'd want others to see it. But it's tough to do without others thinking you're boasting or other negative thoughts. So if =SE does it, everyone wins :) Starr Scores are supposed to be used only as a comparison of players' abilities.
In real life, I'm a person who loves organization and structure. Everything needs to have a place. I love Hoops Dynasty- it's just I always wished I could look at two great players and know "He's the better one." When players are close, it's sometimes hard to tell at first. The Starr Score tries to take all of the players and combines all of the sets into one to try to find the best players across sets. I wanted to add more fun to an already fun game.
I do have visions for the future of the site, but I won't go into detail for now just in case it never becomes a reality.