i don't think you're being unfair.
i think you should post your preference when you sign up or re-up. you should be allowed to edit your preference up until you pick, but if you don't post a preference, i think it's on you.
that said, i don't have a problem with restarting the draft, nor any sort of preference. my gut tells me people would be open to restarting, as well as quick to re-pick.
honestly, eleibowitz and miles are both experienced owners. they can win from the spots they have.