Posted by Trentonjoe on 2/27/2017 5:23:00 PM (view original):
If you want to coach, you have to coach...anywhere, anyone.
If being a head coach is important to you, apply every season for some sort of better job, keep moving up.
I coached HS football for 20 years. I did 3 years of FRESHMEN before I got to be a VARSITY assistant. I was a position coach for 2 years and then got promoted to Special Teams coordinator. I got canned from that (because I sucked at it) and then 5 more years before I got the chance to be a defensive coordinator.
Coaching is brutal. If you have a spouse, make sure she understands the commitment. If you don't, dating is tough in season.
When you have kids, it's crazy. Expect to hear things like "We don't see Daddy much during <insert season name here>." Some guys can pull it off but I hung the whistle up before my wife stabbed me.
Lot's of fun, super rewarding, not easy....
You are not kidding on the stress it puts on the home front Trenton -- I warned my wife before we were married that she was marrying a coach, which meant that even if we didn't have kids, that she was going to find herself with MANY kids, and those kids were going to keep me awake and out of the house a lot. I told her it meant we might never "settle down" until retirement because each year would likely involve looking for better places and/or the threat that an administrative or funding change completely changed the outlook on the job I had and/or whether I have it. I tried to make it sound as ominous as possible (even though it really was just honest disclosure of what my life is like every year).
It's a crazy life, but fun, rewarding, annoying, infuriating and, yes, fun. Really.