To me, this seems silly. If you sign a 4 or 5 star recruit, you run the risk of them becoming an EE. There are surprises as well, and for the most part if you have a stud player, you have an idea on if he would be pro worthy or not.
It really sucks trying to replace them, that is a fact...but its a KNOWN fact at this point.
So you have options, you can build your team off these 4-5 star recruits knowing you could get burned, or you try and build your team around maybe 1 or 2 of those studs and then fill the rest out with (god forbid) 1-3 star recruits.
Everyone is in the same boat, its not like the Sim is picking on certain schools with EEs.
I personally like it, you get to see what coaches are made of if they only have 1 or 2 studs in the rotation and have to balance the rest out with role players and put players in their best positions to succeed.
Just my 2 cents, not trying to antagonize, but at some point we just have to deal with it and act accordingly.