Just a thought Raider. You mentioned in a different thread that you're highly competitive to justify sending threats to other coaches, in DIII no less. In other words, you're so focused on being competitive that you maybe don't care about etiquette as much as the next guy. But think of this. If somebody is kind enough to help you and mentor you, just take the time to appreciate how they're not so "competitive" that they have to be offensive.
This is a fun game, and one of the most fun things is the interactions you get to have with other coaches. Some take the "I'm not here to make friends" angle, but why? There are a lot of successful coaches who win without burning bridges and making threats. Best of luck to you.