Okay, I have decided that I am only using catchers with an A+ arm and with good overall fielding, and good fielding at second, short and third to the degree possible (that is as high a fielding rating as possible).
Same with pitchers to the extent possible, but more importantly, unlike my previous strategies, (since I always agreed with the movie "Bul Durham" that strikeouts are "boring and fascist" and "ground balls are more democratic" - I am now going to start going with pitchers with the maximum strikeout ratio. Of course SO-BB ratio is always a trade off and the K pitchers tend to have less control, but that will be the challenge. One Mel Stottlemyre to a team at most and maybe not even.
Keep 'em off the bases is the only way, and also NO artificial turf. None of this will completely counter Coleman and co. but it is getting so Coleman is more important than Ruth. I have lost several games because he stole all three bases, sometimes twice in a game. Stealing home is not that easy.
The rest is realistic enough, and I looked at Coleman's performance history and the overall average is actually pretty close to his real numbers for his best years, so nothing seems untoward to me, but it is time to get serious. Every adjustment in approach and strategy lowers the absolute certainty of certain strategies by your opponent working so that they may begin to diversify and a mutual and partial disarmament can begin.