As others have said, I agree none of the things you mentioned are "wrong". I'm about to say "but" here, and as always, there are exceptions and circumstance and context.
Generally speaking though,I think "poaching" a late recruit in your own conference is a bad move. As WIS is set up, you actually need your conference to be strong to get more recruiting money. You can't do it all on your own. Otherwise, the other conferences will always have more money. If you want the recruit move on him earlier and let the other coach decide what he's going to do. WIS has this strange dynamic of needing to better than your conference, but also needing them to be good. In a lot of cases, you are just weakening yourself by moving late on a conference mate.