I see all of these issues and realize there must be problems, I just don't see them in my games. I coach Colgate, in Naismith, and couldn't ask for more.
I run a FCP and avg. more fouls than I ever have, but it doesn't seem un-realistic. The first 5 games of the season I had 17 to 24 fouls per game in 4, 31 fouls in the other game. By the 1st 5 conf. games we settled down a little with 2 games at 17 fls. and the other 3 from 22-26. The last 5 conf. games I commited 12, 18, 20, 24 & 21 fouls. My IQ's are strong, all but 1 player in the A's, but I had 4-5 B+'s to start the season. It's pretty clear that as my IQ's have improved my pf's have slowed down some.
Again, keep in mind I run a FCP, play motion/uptempo offense and am leading the nation in scoring at a little over 98 ppg, so I'm definately not playing to "not foul".
As far as win/loss margin, granted, I've had some lopsided wins, but my 2 losses were 101-98 & 95-92, hardley blowouts!