si having a kid considering you who you have no interest in and no more $$ obligation to could be a form of subterfuge to entice opponents to waste money fighting you when they shjould, in fact, find an easier target - unless, you've had something go wrong and you are, perhaps, overextended and feeling vulnerable, in which case pointing it out might be an error - or, I've been reading too many conspiracy websites and hitting the peace pipe too hard...you sdecide?