I checked some of the other threads, but didn't see this message addressed. So, am I ahead or behind (knowing it's close either way and I have more effort to put in) if I got this message:
"Coach, I just can't say yes right now...I'm still supposed to take a campus visit of another school. I should know more after that."
Also, the "campus visit" language is just for show, right? I assume he's not actually telling me what another coach is doing.