if you're talking about Farlow, then he's simply considering both of you and there's now a recruiting battle for the kid. If you send the player a scholarship offer, then you'll get updated information from the kid regarding if you're in the recruiting lead or the other school is. And importantly, you'll get an updated scholarship email from him each time the recruiting lead changes from your school to the other school. Sometimes these messages are clear cut (when you're clearly in the recruiting lead by sending more HV/CV/Evals/Calls, with the emphasis on HV and CVs), other times it's not as clear if the battle is close.
On the Recruiting Summary page, if a kid considers just you, it'll say "Considering Us", if it's you plus at least another school it'll say "Considering Us Among Others".
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