I am not very good at this game - just look at my coaching history - and have a long history of mediocrity both at Big 6 and mid-major conferences. Therefore, these opinions are provided with absolutely no track record of success in this game.
1. You've done a pretty good job competing in a very competitive conference. You will have many many more years there to turn it around. Trust me, I sucked at Northwestern and still road out a few seasons with boosters complaining before I decided to leave. I probably could have stayed another 6 seasons before they finally canned me.
2. When you start a thread talking about how the program logic is screwed up and that logic is not directly impacting you, you may simply be trying to improve the game. When you start the same thread because that logic is working against you, you are complaining. My advice, take it or leave it, is to stop complaining.
3. When you use your own coaching history at NC State as an example, and describe your own performance as a tremendous turnaround where the boosters should be thanking you, don't be surprised if successful coaches point out that your performance does not indicate a tremendous turnaround.
4. If you want to use real world logic by comparing your coaching success to the past 40 seasons, please remember that, in real life, schools do not hire SIMs to coach. Any human coach would have been an improvement over SIM during those years prior to your arrival. Maybe not as big of an improvement as you made, but better nonetheless. Hell, even I could have kept them at a C with 10-12 wins a season.
5. It looks like all you need to do is figure out how to consistently beat some really good teams in your conference and you will be set. If the conference is as dominant as you indicated (based on your comment that TrentonJoe's Big East is nowhere as challenging as your ACC), you have plenty of chances each season to beat ranked teams. Stop complaining and beat some of them in the same season and you should get a good seed in the NT. Get a good seed and you should have a shot to win a NT game. Do that and your boosters are no longer complaining. There's your formula right there. If you cannot do that, your boosters should be complaining.