Equivalent; I don't think trades with cash is right. I can tolerate up to $1M.
I'm in a world that allows cash trades.
I veto if I see one above $1m. Most (not all) pass, because others have a different value system.
I get offered a trade that I believe would help me out. It has $2M on it to get it under the cap. The person sending the offer has no qualms about it; the money is used to get it under the cap, he has a different value system.
Do I accept? no. Because, in my eyes, it's wrong.
Move over to your dilemma. Is it wrong in your eyes? You can ask how we feel, but ultimately you have to feel right about what you are doing.