The NCAA EA sports idea isnt a bad one. There has got to be something to assist in attempting to keep guys from leaving. I really believe that EE's, while they suck (They destroyed my Kansas team the last two seasons) are a critical part of the game, speficially when given the discrepency in talent. Plus while the game wont always be 100% realistic it is one of the simple things which do draw a similarities. EEs seem pretty random in real life and I think are fairly predictable in HD (Id say you can guess with 80%+ certainty who will stay or leave).
The fix is having a way to try and get them to stay. Right now we as coaches are powerless.