I agree, I don't think that the team winning was anything out of line, you guys both had good squads, and it should have been a fairly competitive game (in my opinion). What bothers me about your game more than anything is the margin of victory (or defeat in your case). Could it happen? Absolutely. Did it happen in the old engine? Absolutely. Is it happening waaaaay more often in the new engine? Don't even think it can be argued, that yes, it's happening with much more frequency.
Example, I've got Wake Forest in Wooden (emy ID). I'm 8-2 with an RPI in the upper 30's and an SOS under 100, so I'm playing pretty decent teams. Well, my two losses are by 50 and 43 points. Now granted, those two teams were better than mine and I fully expected to lose, but by margins like that? Just thought they were a bit much. I said it earlier, but I'll say it again, I think something's still off in this new engine. Just my two cents....