There is no such thing as poaching. Mason is correct, at the D2 level prestige is not nearly as much of a factor as at D1, so I would agree that he did, in fact, spend nearly as much, if not more, than you did on the recruit.
Stine is also correct, there is no such thing as a "sure bet" recruit. Not until he signs. Sorry to be harsh, but we've all had this happen to us at one time or another, so just letting you know in advance, you probably won't get much sympathy from the audience.