Dino......... I'll give you this much, a favorite quote of mine from a life long inspiration to me, Danny O'Keefe
"There are none so dumb as those who will not speak, so spit it out soldier it's the feel that counts"
countered by the reality that "even a fish would stay out of trouble if he kept his mouth shut"
That last quote I attribute to my late Father who was trying to teach me a bit about reality/life.