Posted by robusk on 8/5/2017 12:44:00 PM (view original):
Thanks guys. First one! My wife and I got married last July and neither one of us felt ready for a kid, but we figured it would take a while... so we just pulled the goalie and it took like 3 months. Kind of nuts. We are 35 and 33, in a good place professionally... I mean I guess the timing is right but it still feels scary as hell.
Tell you one thing, we would not have bought an overpriced, smaller house that was near a bunch of cool bars in town if we knew she was going to get pregnant a week after we bought it!
first - congrats
second - make sure you keep the proper perspective...
don't let family - kids
don't let career
dont let religion get in the way
keep WIS as your first priority....