I actually agree with most of your post. The "bashing" is frustration from constantly getting smacked around by Montreal. You'll notice I didn't post much during December, it was only when they were doing well and got smacked by the Habs again did the frustration boil over.
As for the Red Sox comparison...the difference was that we always expected bad things to happen to the Sox because they always did. The Bruins always had good things happen, except against Montreal. I was at Games 1, 2, and 5 a couple of years ago, and never in my wildest dreams did I expect them to lose that series in 7, but against Montreal, I should have known better.
I still don't think there's a lot of talent on this team, and the roster needs a major overhaul. I'd love to see them build around Kessel, as I think he could be a huge star, but I fear that his best days will be in a different uniform. I've never been impressed with Tim Thomas, and he hasn't done a lot to change that. Half the time when Jack Edwards is screaming about "another great save!" it's because he was out of position to begin with and had to make an acrobatic move to make the save.
For the record, I'm only 5 years older than you, but my first game was a Big Bad Bruins/Broad Street Bullies tilt at the Garden in 1978. I started getting into sports in 1978-79, so my first real memories are Bucky Bleeping Dent and Too Many Men on the Ice. I learned at an early age that the Yankees and Habs are evil, and Boston teams that don't wear green would never have good luck. It took more than 20 years to change the latter half of that line of thinking.