I do a lot of the child raising on my own. Kids are 4 and almost 2. Mom is a flight attendant which means she is gone 4 nights a week.
I am also a good baseball coach and recruiter. I had done some coaching at the HS level and in the 5 years I was there never missed the state tournament. Now I am coaching amature baseball and am able to talk a recruits pants off.... or at least their mom's.