Quote: Originally posted by zhawks on 12/29/2009gil I agree and I apologize I am just sick of answering peoples questions / ideas or giving advice and then getting rude responses back because they didn't agree with me. My apologies I will try and not take it as personally.
thanks! i appreciate the fact that you put in the effort to help others, especially newbies, more than 99% of the coaches out there (even if some others do not). on the taking it personal bit, i think the problem is often that people don't fully understand you... and they are asking follow up questions you have already answered from the perspective of a coach who knows what is going on, but the problem is, the guy who is asking you is not one of those coaches. i feel its mostly misunderstanding... i really believe well over 95% of the posters on here have good intentions. if we could all cut each other a little slack and assume the best, it would go a long way.
i remember one thread in particular in which i bullheadedly argued against a fair number of veteran coaches, including the most respected of them all, and even though i still feel strongly about my position, i am not proud of some of the things i said. but, i don't think anybody holds that against me today. i think there is a lot of tolerance for past actions for anybody who in the long run is in good faith trying to contribute in a positive way. there are a lot of coaches who are sarcastic today, like i said before, i am not trying to point any fingers. but i would like to point out that pretty much nobody will hold anything against you if you would extend the olive branch :)