Posted by shoe3 on 6/10/2020 6:30:00 PM (view original):
Posted by gillispie1 on 6/10/2020 6:19:00 PM (view original):
Posted by shoe3 on 6/10/2020 6:09:00 PM (view original):
Gil, it’s the same difference between criticizing the dumb things a person does, and calling that person a moron. Maybe you don’t make that distinction. I do.
alright, thats fair, but i hope you can see that such an approach is not universal. everyone does dumb things, but not everyone is an idiot. not all the worlds in our language works the same way. if i say, this dude over here, he committed one murder - there's no daylight between that and calling him a murderer.
i suppose how that works with calling someone a liar is somewhere in the middle and is open to interpretation, for me personally if you are saying someone lies, repeatedly, in an unrepentant manner - i see either no or extremely little daylight between that and calling them a liar. however, perhaps my personal bias is coloring my perception here. certainly everyone lies some (counting white lies), but that doesn't make everyone a liar, so i'll take what you are saying at face value and accept there's a difference there in your worldview. as a result, i amend my earlier statement to 'i take exception with referring to seble's action in these cases as him telling lies'. my belief is that there is a difference between your situation and whatever situation you were referring to, and that for whatever reason, your communications with seble failed to obviate this difference.
Yeah, and I’ll preface this next part by reiterating that I’m very glad wronoj got his job back, I think CS did what it was supposed to do in that case. This is not me being bitter or resentful that I didn’t get the same result.
It doesnt really matter to me what the specific circumstances were. I’m not suggesting that seble necessarily stepped in over someone else’s application. Though if he did, great. He did undeniably do something he didn’t do for me, though, which was amend the process to quickly facilitate transfer when robin agreed to move. Wronoj was “not qualified” for either job, remember. So at very least, there is some movement from a week ago. Again, great.
As I said to doggg, I’d be much less critical if his response to me acknowledged the problems with the system, and pledged to work on it, even if he didn’t know exactly how that would work yet. He ends up telling me he can’t do something he clearly can, prioritizes not getting someone’s hopes up over helping me not lose a dream job because of a Hell weekend, and then uses the situation to try to pitch me on buying 10 packs.
Im not saying seble is a liar. I’m saying he gave me a really poor customer service experience. If this recent episode indicates he’s improved, wonderful.
this is where we disagree - and what i was hoping to get down to once we dispatched with the semantics - i disagree that he undeniably did anything for wronoj that he didn't do for you. i disagree seble told you he told you something he clearly could do. i disagree he lies to get out of CS work or that he did so in your case. i disagree that his stance has changed at all over the past few weeks.
in wronoj's case, how do you know that seble didn't step in after robin got the job, but before there was an application to robin's old job? i do not believe you know that and as such, i think your above statements are invalid.
my goal here is to help you understand seble's policy, so that you do not take the events in your case so personally. seble's policy, as i understand it, has been fixed and consistently applied for years - and it is that he 1) will not undo the applications of any existing coaches (this is based on a complaint from years ago by such a coach), and 2) he will only swap coaches if all parties agree.
the unfortunate consequence of this is that timing is a major factor. if you got the first coach to agree to move, and seble had this confirmation in hand before the first coach in your scenario's old job got applied to - and seble was around and available when this set of circumstances occurred - i believe, strongly, that he would have put you back. as such, i believe, strongly, that this was not the case. in wronoj's case, i believe seble necessarily was aware that 1) wronoj wanted his job back, and 2) robin was willing to move back, based on confirmation from robin himself - at a time when the 2nd job in question (robin's old job) was as of yet not applied to.
before you respond if you agree, do you understand the distinction i am making here? second, if you have any evidence to the contrary, i would be interested in seeing it, as i have observed seble's hand in these matters for years and have assessed it to be extremely steady.
6/10/2020 6:50 PM (edited)