Posted by emy1013 on 5/17/2012 12:31:00 PM (view original):
Posted by gillispie on 5/17/2012 11:15:00 AM (view original):
a btw, THIS is why the HD forums are "dead" compared to the old days. because of idiots like those in this thread, complaining for no reason. so to the idiots in the thread - thank you, you are the downfall of (the HD) society. congratulations. you make it so bad that most users simply won't participate.
Irony at it's finest.
i suppose this is better than your earlier, down-right nasty post, which you deleted. but, i guess you already know that. i am not claiming i HAVENT made some dumb posts, i played here for 5 years and have made thousands and thousands of posts. do i regret a good 10 or 20 of them? hell yes. if you take away posts in relation to 1 particular coach (the one you mentioned), on a matter i will no longer discuss because there is nothing to be gained, its really just a handful, i would like to retract. am i perfect? no, of course not, nor am i close. but i do try to help people on the forums, especially new coaches, because that is good for the game.
the reason i, from time to time, rail against the negativity on the forums, is simple. well over a dozen coaches, probably 20 or 30 over the course of my years in this game, have site mailed me, leading up to or following their question with something very much like this -
hey, sorry to bother you, i saw you post in the forums, and i had a question but i don't post there because people are so rude, could you help me?
im sure you think me an arrogant person, you've made that clear, but i am not so arrogant to think that i have helped, say, 10% of the community who feels that way. there are a LOT of helpful veterans in this game and i don't think an absurdly large share of people come to me for help, instead of those other vets. ive coached for roughly 5 years and like most many-year reasonably successful coaches, ive gotten pretty many sitemails asking for help. however, the amount with the sentiment in the above line really disturbs me. if i have directly been asked for help by say 1% of all coaches who feel like the above, which sounds like the highest figure i could throw out without sounding TOO conceited (there are well over 100 vets), it would put literally thousands of coaches in that camp. a couple thousand coaches who check in on the forums, but who were not willing to post because there is SUCH a negatively aggressive atmosphere. i don't know about you, but i think the forums could really benefit from their participation.
and no to colonels, i am not blaming you for the worlds' problems. in fact, i hardly blame you at all. everyone has seen your rhetoric, and if someone gets offended by your posts at this point, well that is just a little silly. but when respected, established coaches come out and attack people without reason, thats when it really hurts the community. and i deeply believe that is what has happened to the forums here. a LOT of coaches agree with me, but many will not come out and say it. which gets back to the original point...
5/17/2012 9:03 PM (edited)