Being fairly new...I know when I started..I would have to be in a public world for a few seasons, before most private worlds would even consider you joining. I understand Worlds looking for owners with stability, so that is no biggie. I was lucky to get in New Guys, which seems pretty good. Most of all I "fell" into Ruth when it had 1 opening , and was public. Outstanding World, some of the owners even seem to work for HBD. Most of all, the one thing I did before I joined any public world, was to check out the chat and see what goes on. Do they chat daily? are they bickering? how long have owners been there? But that is just me, I also picked up a few good mentors to help me too.