0 Adv Scouting and 20 Training are shoo ins for me.
After that, I like to spend 6-10 on coaches depending on whether I can afford to splurge on a FI. I like to keep medical in the 14-16 range, I would go up to 18-20 but I fill out my roster with a lot of $2-3M guys instead of $327K, so I need the extra cash. The draft depends on where I'm picking and in what world, but unless I have a top 10 pick (a rarity), I like to spend in the single digits on both HS/College. I usually allocate $20M on prospects to keep my farm respectable, but I'll drop it down to $6M if I need the money to win now. IFA scouting I will spend $11-12M, but drop it down if I'm only spending $6M on prospects.
I'm considering hiking up my medical and IFA scouting in favor of my draft budget in a couple of worlds, because I don't get too much I care about in the draft anyway.