an example (hypothetical, but part of it just happenned to me as the 1st coach), a coach is A-, has 2 open scholies, goes early after a #1 and #4, locks them both up as considering just him. the next day another local A school with 6 scholies jumps on the #1 - the following day a non local A school, jumps on the #4 school. Has anyone done anything unethical? Should any of the 3 coaches feel bad?
From my point of view, my hat is off to all 3, the first guy took his shot, and will still have a strong 10 man team, plus he will have lots of open scholies next season. The second coach correctly figured out he can get 1 #1 recruit, for at most 25-30k, a real bargain, and the 3rd coach, had to think there was a pretty good chance, that the #4 ranked recruit might only have 8-10k on him, since the FSS showed a 'struggle on the #1', the 3rd coach probably deserves credit, although he really did a classic 'poach'.