I always assume that you only received the scholarship message when battling for a recruit when the leader changes. But here are the last 2 scholarship messages I received.
"It would be an honor to play for you at XXXX, but I'd also be honored to play for a couple of other schools too. I'm sorry, I just need more time."
"Coach, it's down to a handful of schools - you're on my very short list, but I feel like I still need more information about the program."
I blocked out the school name cuz it's still going on. But I'm in 2 different battles in 2 different worlds right now so I'm not giving it away who it is. But don't these both sound like I'm a little behind? Is that wrong? And do messages come when you go from way ahead to just barely ahead?