Well, reading your WC, no one is saying that a deal will be vetoed. They're saying "If you really want to trade that guy, get something big." And, after looking at the player in question, they're right.
Hardball Dynasty – Fantasy Baseball Sim Games - Player Profile: Benny Molina Only one of the arb guys has any value even close to Molina's. Let one or two of them walk(especially the old pitcher in AAA. No one is going to sign him so, if you have to have him, you can get him cheap).
FWIW, if you took a team with 88m committed to payroll, you were committing to a high payroll.