arsy, old friend, i really dont even need to look at your team to answer this one. ;-)
im sure your team is pretty dang good and you probably got a couple of bad breaks and/or ran into a couple of tough teams and played a bad game or two at the wrong time.
as aaron rodgers would say R E L A X.
of course, thats great advice coming from one of the few coaches who could go toe to toe with you in terms of ranting and self loathing.
hang in there buddy... sunny skies ahead