The recipe for winning is to recruit well. It really is. If you do that well, you will win. If you miss or take someone you shouldn't, you will suffer. Everytime I make a mistake on a recruit, I suffer for it and can easily trace back the mistake I made.
I also strongly suggest getting a mentor. It made a HUGE difference for me. Mentors don't solve everything but this is a complex game to understand. There are so many different ways to play and methods to recruit. How you schedule, who you schedule, how you structure your teams, what you emphasize, what you run. So much to learn. I've never ran a zone so I don't know much help I can be. I feel pretty good about the flex offense and the press. My teams usually are not that good but when they're bad, I at least can see why. That in of itself took a long time for me to learn. And still a lot left to learn.
Let me know if I can help in anyway. I've been there.