First off, I assume the OP is asking about D1 (and not D2/D3 as the difference in prestige is way less at the lower levels).
Also, if you are considering fighting for a recruit with an A+ school that is worth that amount of cash (likely a 5 star or good 4 star), then you also need to expect that other A+ schools will also eye both your other recruits and/or even joining that fight if they feel they can win it as well.
So you need to carefully consider are you willing to risk your entire class for this recruit and can you beat any A+ school who might come along (A+ schools could have an even bigger advantage depending on draft picks giving them A+++ level prestige).