I just did a sign and trade with arb going through before trade went through. I sent two arb players in deal to other owner. He wanted long term deal for whatever amount and years the player wanted before arb. One player wouldn't sign long term. The other player i signed for the new team for the two years that the player wanted. The deal went through even though one player was arb'd and one was signed while deal was waiting to go through. So, yes ask other owner what they might want to do.