a 10 on 9 man on man match is not a terribly huge tempo advantage. its ok to try to run uptempo to tire them out, but you certainly shouldn't feel like it was mandatory. if you had good 12 m2m depth and they were say 9 press, then it would be roughly mandatory (perhaps some weird edge cases aside).
it does depend on the 9 men you are facing too, and how the coach has them organized. you can look at other similar tempo games and see if they get tired out, and if they respond well to foul trouble. you can catch coaches in foul trouble sooner than you should in some cases - with dcy as the opposing coach (that is emy), its pretty unlikely that is going to be the case - but its a good thing to keep in mind and to look into when you are on the fence about uptempo.
he's also a quality 82 stamina on his 9 players - which makes tiring them out with m2m pretty damn difficult. you'll probably need luck in terms of getting them to get into foul trouble before you could punish them. this means in a roughly even fight, its not really something you'll be able to count on. if his team was much better than yours, and you'd only win when getting lucky, it would be more compelling 'well maybe i'll get lucky and tire him out, and if not, i was screwed anyway'. but most of the time, you won't be tiring them out.
so then that means you are mostly back to the standard calculation - who is favored , how do starters vs backups stack up? roughly the fatigue impact is going to be fairly similar - you are deeper - he has better stamina.
hmm - it looks like you are actually perhaps more than 10 deep? not sure why you only play 10 - i assumed the last 2 were terrible - but xie is not. the other is. so are you really 11 deep? kinda unclear to me. but still - you are facing a 9 deep, 82 stamina slowdown motion m2m team, and you run m2m without fb. you just can't really force the fatigue issue.
well - i haven't looked too much - but it looks like you might have felt you had pretty small odds of winning. if that is true, uptempo was probably the right move. if you had a better team, if this was a fairer matchup, i very well might not have.