If it's not a sim, that changes EVERYTHING man. If a D1 human is interested, they can bomb at any time. There's no reason for you to invest now. You can still apply AP if you think the D1 team doesn't really want him. That's the risks we take in this game. But I can tell you now, if the D1 wants him, he'll get him.
Reach out to someone that isn't in that world and currently recruiting, and discuss the situation somewhere other than the forums. So you can discuss specifics